Anti-Bullying Advice for Students
What is Bullying?
Bullying happens when someone, or a group of people, repeatedly does things to intentionally hurt another person, either physically or emotionally. It's not usually a one-off incident; it tends to happen over time.
Watch the ‘Definition of Bullying’ video below:
It is important for you to know that at Minerva May School, even if something hurtful happens once, we take it seriously and will address it straight away. This helps us ensure it doesn’t become a repeated issue.
Examples of bullying include:
Name-calling or teasing
Hitting, kicking, or physically harming someone
Spreading rumours or lies
Bullying can also happen online. This is called cyberbullying and includes:
Sending nasty messages
Sharing embarrassing photos or videos
Being unkind or hurtful on social media or in group chats
We understand that bullying can have a serious emotional impact. That’s why we aim to stop it, whether it happens in person or online. Bullying affects how people feel and can harm emotional wellbeing.
How to Respond to Bullying?
Tell someone you trust: Speak up as soon as possible. Telling someone who can help, like a teacher or an adult you trust, is a way of standing up for yourself.
Keep a record: Make a note of what’s happening. It’s helpful to report everything to the school so it can be logged. If the bullying is online, take screenshots and report it to the social media platform.
Don’t retaliate: Try to walk away from any situations if you can. If the bullying happens online, don’t respond or engage.
Stick with supportive people: Spend time with friends who make you feel good. Stay with a group if possible—there’s safety in numbers.
Remember, it’s not your fault: You don’t deserve to be bullied. No matter what, it’s never your fault.
Be proud of who you are: You are unique and special. Don’t let anyone make you feel otherwise.
Be mindful of social media use: Only interact with friends you trust and think carefully about what you share online.
Avoid involving others: Focus on reporting what has happened clearly and accurately. It’s important not to escalate the situation.
Understanding Your Rights in School
Everyone has the right to participate in school activities and lessons without anyone else making them feel uncomfortable. We work hard to prevent bullying and promote respect for everyone. Here’s how we do it:
Assemblies: We hold assemblies to discuss important topics, including kindness and respect.
Skills for Life Lessons: These lessons cover important issues such as bullying and how to handle difficult situations.
Tutor Time: Each week, you’ll have time with your tutor to explore key topics and take part in discussions.
Pastoral Support: Your Form Tutor, pastoral staff, teachers, and the school's senior leaders are here to support you if you have concerns.
Trained Staff: All staff are trained to handle and report potential bullying incidents.
Listening to Students: We always take students’ opinions seriously and act when needed.
Communication with Families: We make sure to keep parents informed about any concerns.
Working with Outside Experts: We collaborate with external agencies to ensure students feel supported.
Clear Behaviour and Anti-Bullying Policies: We have clear policies and expectations in place to prevent bullying and ensure everyone’s safety.
Mental Health Support: If you’re struggling emotionally, we offer mental health support.
Quick Response to Issues: We deal with problems promptly to prevent them from escalating.
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